Why I Chose Mexico Over Texas (Iowa, Nebraska, et al)
By definition, great cities everywhere always come with a bigger price tag and those prices are increasing at an even greater rate. U.S. rents rose to an average of $1,408, the 47th straight month of gains in 2016 according to Zillow.
The thought of moving to a smaller, less expensive town is not uncommon when retiring. During the Great Recession, when I was especially struggling to find contract work, a few people suggested that I move somewhere with a lower cost of living, like Irving, Texas they said.
That thought of moving to Irving, Texas panicked me in a way that the idea of moving to a foreign country had not. Realizing my reaction was more than a little strange, I had to think about why.
Being from a small town in southwest Oklahoma and attending the University of Oklahoma, I had spent a fair amount of time in Dallas. I knew the museums and art walks compared well to any big city. My friends in Texas wore fashionable clothes and had nice cars, what more could a girl want?
So I pondered that ticky-tacky future, the condo in an “okay” area that I could afford, the malls, the trips to Kroger and the conversations I would have over dinner.
I lived an imaginary day in Irving as well as trying to imagine any of the “Ten Most Affordable Cities to Retire in America.” And it terrified me.
At that time, I had never met anyone of my profile, single, no children, over 50, who had moved to Mexico.
I surveyed my friends for their opinions. Other than a vague comment that maybe I could live in an even smaller town in the U.S., they seemed to realize the disingenuousness of promoting such an option when they would never pursue it themselves.
I asked them whether they were more likely to visit me in Dayton or Mazatlán. They laughed but did not directly answer the question, which told me what I needed to know. I could live in a wonderful coastal towns in Mexico for half of what it would cost to live even in Irving, Texas.
Moving to Denver five years earlier, alone without contacts had been hard, even with a grasp of the native tongue and familiarity with the currency. Adventurous as I am, in moving to Mexico I decided not to be dropped down, commando-style, alone into yet another unfamiliar territory.
Once I started digging and networking, I began to hear about someone-who-knew-someone who had made the move. Millions of people know the “secret” of Mexico, maintaining homes and second lives either as full-time or part-time residents, living happily out-of-the-box.
I cannot estimate the number of people from the U.S. and Canada who live there part of the year, not the mention all the French, Italian and Germans I meet when I go out in Mazatlán.
Some internationals live quietly here in Mazatlan, others create conversational salons in the expat bars and restaurants and make rafts that they float up and down the streets of El Centro after big rain storm. They all laugh about their lives as if they were on some kind of caper.
They have crossed over, likely through their fear of the unknown, through common misconceptions about Mexico and through human susceptibility to do what other people do.
In every meaningful conversation among us in Mexico passes an unspoken, mutual acknowledgement of someone else who has also questioned the status quo and came out on the other side.
Related link: Is it danger, or is it just the wind? Facing misconceptions about Mexico Ventanas Mexico
Next up: We like to show videos of the variety of lifestyles you can have here, from the funky to the sublime.
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I am a partner with Ventanas Mexico and author of the "Interactive Guide to Learning Spanish Free Online," a curation of the best Spanish language tools on the web, linked and organized into lesson plans. Check our reviews on Amazon!
In July, 2017, I also launched "If Only I Had a Place," a guide to renting luxuriously in Mexico.